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Sufa DE Gape --->21 (2008)

Born Msia, Raised Msia, Future - SuFa's Neverland (search not Found)

Jay Chou's Freak ---> Barbie's Freak

Unusual Personality, Mentally deformed, Psychotic

♥ ~DESIRES~
Critical Care...Critical Love...

Being a Real Professional Psychologist

♥ ~BELOVED FRIENDS~

--->Boey

--->Shyi

--->FeiFei.

--->Xiuming

--->Tw

--->Look Soon

--->Melvin Mah

--->daoyong

--->RL

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CREDITS;

giant pixel
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10:46 AM

This is something that i read with deep thought, read it, i guarantee you will be enlighten, even just a little :
《是该放下了》

‘如果你背着一个人走一段路,你的感觉是什么?累,腿软,无力感。。
如果你被人背着走一段路,你的感觉是什么?闷,腿麻,内疚感。。。’

‘那么,怎样才是最好的相处模式呢?
在很多辅导课程,会说的道理不比别人少,但似乎被自己锁在记忆库的某一处。。。 况且理论和实际还真的是有一段距离。我以为,世界上最难説服的人不是别人,是自己。’

但是就像作者一样,我也侥幸的累了,累得我想要放空自己,这样反而让我打开那被我们遗忘的智慧。

‘于是我学习放下,我开始强迫自己视而不见,听而不闻。起初的辛苦,无法言喻,但久而久之就习惯了。曾经听一个人说,如果你因为失恋而想自杀,不妨给自己上个月的时间,只是三个月,又不是不死,何必急于一时呢?就当作给自己处理后事吧。’

‘看来,是时候放下了,别再背着别人前行了,放下他,你会发现心情改变了,路程的风景也改变了,结局更是令人意想不到的。。’

是不是很对啊?符合你的心情吧?刚读的时候我也不是很同意的。。 白羊座的我,肯这样就放弃吗?但是,我告诉自己,我现在不是放弃,而是选择聪明的方式来应付。我相信他会回来的。可能我们的思想度不同吧。你认为我给的投诉和诉苦是压力,而我认为是分享。你选着看不见,听不到,让我感得更无奈和伤心。竟然, 我选择继续,那也许我该改变吧。

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